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Self-Esteem
Being able to Live, Love and Like Yourself.

Self-Esteem is being who you are.
Self-Esteem is liking who you are.
Self-Esteem is accepting who you are.

 

Why Self-Esteem is so Important
Low self-esteem is the underlying issue to most if not all of problematic areas we all have to deal with at some time or other. Self-esteem covers empowerment, self-worth, confidence. Self-esteem is not ego based it is a simple and pure realisation of our right to be here, being who and what we are and accepting our individuality.
From birth and throughout life, self-esteem gets knocked and bruised. Trying to fit in, trying to please and trying to be what is called "Normal" are all ways self-esteem can gradually seem to diminish. Yet self-esteem never dies, it always remains the same that is why negative issues appear in our lives. They are the inner conflict we experience as we deny our individuality and acceptance of who we are. In other words our Self-Esteem.

The Self-Esteem Programme
Encourages Loving, Living With and Liking yourself
Provides Empowerment to bring about any changes necessary for a happier life
Builds Confidence and Self-Worth
Releases the "Victim Role" that is commonly adopted when low self-esteem is an issue.
Deals with the Negative, Problematic areas that have been adopted.

Self-Esteem
Self-esteem is one of the most important factors when dealing with anything negative in life. Self-esteem never relates to any egotistical behaviour. (egotistical behaviour comes from low self-esteem) I believe self-esteem is something we are all born with, it is our individuality and when we try to deny it, it causes negative patterns to develop. All too often we adopt behaviours as a way of being accepted, of a way to be loved and liked and of course as away of appearing "Normal". Through today's various media's we are bombard with idealistic lifestyles, giving the impression that this is the way we should behave, act or react. Often leading us to believe that if we want to be accepted in society, if we want lots of friends and to get on in life then this is how we need to behave, to think and to feel. On the opposite side to this is the media publicity about those who slightly do not conform to "Normal" patterns and they are so often ridiculed and made fun of so we try our hardest to deny anything in ourselves that might point us in that direction in fear of being ridiculed, not accepted or liked. So the inner battle begins.
Self-esteem can be diminished from childhood, through upbringing, environment etc. It can also be diminished when we deny those bits about ourselves we do not particularly like. We all have those bits but denial does not make them go away. Low self esteem makes us feel we are "Not Good Enough" "We Do Not Deserve The Best" it leads to negative thoughts and behaviours. From relationship problems to weight issues, to addictions, stress and so on.

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